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An e-mail from Bearden Middle:
Bearden Middle School has followed Dr. Mc Intyre's "procedures for schools seeking to implement school-specific student dress standards for 2009-2010", but in order to move forward from this point we must have achieved a significant majority (60%) of positive responses of a second survey. As the surveys are returning to school, we can see that this 60% is unlikely to occur. I have discussed this with Dr. Alves, the middle school director, and she and I feel that the Bearden Middle School community will be better served by tabling the pursuit of a professional dress attire for next year. In light of this and after a significant investment of time, Bearden Middle School will discontinue the process of implementing a professional dress attire for the 2009-2010 school year, but will revisit this at a later date. The Bearden Middle School faculty, staff, and many members of the community still this believe there is merit in pursuing this objective.
Heather Karnes
Bob - We are in our 8th year at BMS. Every few years, the principal asks for uniforms and we go through this survey routine. At the beginning of every school year, the Open House for students and parents begins with the same speech from the principal. It does not include what the school's strengths or weaknesses are, it states that students must have natural colored hair and the only piercings allowed are girls' ears. I don't care if the students have polka dot hair and wear hoop earrings in their nose that makes them look like farm animals. I care about the student being driven home because he showed up at school with the younger sibling he was responsible for watching while his parent(s) worked. I care about the students who go home to an empty house and have nobody to help them with their homework.
It is not a secret that a lot of families send their children to private school at the end of 5th grade to avoid BMS. Putting the students at BMS in uniforms will not make the school Webb. Ironically, those students and their involved parents are exactly what BMS needs. I love BMS. With a few exceptions, the teachers there are dreamers. The good kind of dreamers who know that every child matters and believe that they can be reached. The vice-principal who has always been over my children is stern, bluntly honest and clever. When my middle child did something incredibly stupid to show off in front of his peers, the principal called to tell me that there would be a one-day suspension. I asked for a punishment that fit the crime instead of a day off from school. The punishment was changed to hours of table scrubbing and my son will never again "see how far" he can spit off a balcony. I wish the school could put the strength and energy that they have spent trying to get uniforms on adding after-school programs, tutoring and things that matter. Instead of worrying about what the students are wearing, we need to worry about what they are doing.
Apparently, this argument is going to be put before the school board. From another e-mail - "Some parents are going to the school board meeting tomorrow night to voice their opinion about the proposed policy. I know that Susan Bacon will be there to express her opinion about individual schools ability to decide policy vs. a county wide consistent policy."
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